Paisley Willow

Our daughter, Paisley Willow, was diagnosed with Chiari Malformation at the age of 10 months after an accidently fall where she suffered a skull fracture. For the next 8 months, we felt it was simply a diagnoses and hoped she would be one of the lucky ones that wouldn’t be impacted by it. Within months, symptoms began presenting themselves but we remained in denial. We blamed it on her chronic ear infections, teething or just becoming a picky eater. At 22 months, Paisley had a swallow study done which showed her 12th cranial nerve was being restricted. She was diagnosed with Hypoglossal Nerve Disorder. Within 2 weeks, Paisley had her 1st Brain Decompression surgery on June 13th, 2017. She spent 6 days in the hospital only to be readmitted on the 22nd with Chemical(Aseptic) Meningitis. Recovery was harder than we had ever imagined.

Paisley began feeding therapy shortly after her 1st surgery to regain skills and to work on many fears she had developed with feeding. Something still didn’t seem right even though her 3 month post op MRI looked good. We became concerned with her breathing therefore we had a sleep study done. Paisley was then diagnosed with Obstructive Sleep Apnea in January 2018. Over the next few months, she began getting worse again. Her behaviors before her 1st surgery were all coming back. She was holding her head, her neck, very irritable, withdrawing and starting to gag on her food. On April 16th she had a CTL Spine MRI which gave us the worst news… Paisley had developed 3 syrinxes in her spine. She now has Syringomyelia. On April 26th, 2018, Paisley had her 2nd Brain Decompression Surgery. It was discovered that scar tissue had formed a blockage. This recovery was even harder than the first. She developed Chemical Meningitis again and this time it took 3 months to fight that beast. Meanwhile, we were so worried about what the Meningitis was causing to her healing process.  

Again, Paisley never seemed to get much relief. Her post op MRI in August showed the syrinxes were still present. We were becoming concerned with her left leg. It appeared to be weak when she would bear weight on it. Her right eye had developed a “wink” or squint before the 2nd surgery and it had only gotten worse. Paisley had another MRI in October but this time a CTL Spine. This showed, the syrinxes appeared to have slightly increased. There were  many different discussions and approaches we attempted (We discussed a low level of hydrocephalus occurring and she began a medication to decrease her CSF production). We discussed a VP (Brain) Shunt or a Syrinx Shunt. We have taken the time to do as much research as we can. A major problem with Chiari is the lack of research available. The lack of funding towards Chiari limits the amount of research. We felt at a loss as parents and only wanted to help our daughter. We reached out to a Chiari specialist who consulted with Paisley’s Neurosurgeon and it was decided that Paisley needs her 3rd Brain Decompression surgery. We are heart broken but know Paisley needs some much needed relief so she can live life like a typical 3 year old. Her 3rd surgery will be on February 5th, 2019.


Paisley had her 3rd brain decompression surgery on February 5th, 2019. This time, a stent was placed in the 4th ventricle of her brain. The recovery began well but soon after we were worried as she just didn’t seem to be doing well. Her eye began acting up worse than ever. She told us that she couldn’t see. She then began telling us she was seeing 2 of things. We were told she was experiencing temporary blindness and diplopia. The Neurosurgery team felt at first it could be due to a medication so we switched medications. Then they felt it could be due to the steriod she was taking. She was also complaining about her right arm hurting and would not use it.

Her eye continued to worry us and they felt it could be due to swelling and should subside as she recovered. Once she weaned from the steriod, her eyes did not get any better. We noticed her left eye began drifting upwards and causing her a lot of discomfort.

Paisley ended up in the ER on March 5th, 2019 for a high fever and vomiting. We were really concerned she might have developed hydrocephalus or high pressure. Testing came back with the flu. We were sent home with medication.

We saw Paisley’s ophthalmologist in May and she was diagnosed with a 4th Nerve Palsy. Finally we had a diagnoses. Before having eye surgery to correct her eye, her doctor recommended we determine the cause of the sudden onset of the palsy. We had an appointment with Neurology and came up with a game plan.

Paisley had a lumbar puncture (her 1st ever) and both a MRA and MRI. We received a call from Neurology stating everything came back normal and there was no explanation for her 4th nerve palsy and to proceed with the eye surgery. In our hearts we knew something was wrong. Paisley was not playing like a 4 year old should be. Her legs have been bothering her and her energy levels are just not what they should be. Her tolerance for physical activity is minimal without some sort of head or neck pain. We also felt her opening pressure for her lumbar puncture was higher than we were comfortable with. We decided to reach out to a Chiari Specialist.

After much thought and watching Paisley only get worse, we decided to go see a Chiari Specialist. We traveled to him on August 12th. It was well worth the trip. The decision was made to do another Lumbar puncture as well as more imaging of her spine to check for instability. From previous imaging, we were informed she has slight retroflexed otonoid. We decided to go back to the specialist to have these procedures done. We traveled back on August 25th.

Before this trip, Paisley started having strange episodes with her legs. On a few occasions, she has told us her legs do not work and scoots on her bottom. She will tell us her legs don’t work and that they itch. She pretty much walks on her tip toes. She also gets the feeling of being cold all over her body and spends much of the day laying on the couch. We just want to finally get some answers for her and get her some relief.

Paisley had a Lumbar Puncture on August 26th and had a significant amount of CSF drained. We are hoping by lowering her pressures we will see a difference in her behaviors. She also had imaging of her neck and spine. She does have some instability that needs to be addressed. However, this is difficult due to her head tilt caused by her 4th nerve palsy. We also discovered the stent appears to be touching her 4th cranial nerve. We are questioning if the stent that was placed in her 4th ventricle during her 3rd decompression could be causing the palsy. If so, this most likely will need to be addressed. For now, we are observing her behaviors over the next week.

This journey has been beyond difficult and exhausting. It has taught us a lot about strength, resilience and life. It has taught us to never take anything for granted and to appreciate everything, no matter how simple it may seem. Paisley gives us our strength and is the strongest little girl we know!


Paisley had her 4th Decompression and was Detethered on January 8th, 2020. The main purpose of the decompression was to pull down the stent that was placed too high. This was the cause of her 4th Nerve Palsy. The stent had to be cut 3 times as it was too long. Paisley was also detethered. This was an answer to our prayers. We knew so many of her symptoms were indeed from a Occult Tethered Cord and not only due to her Syringomyelia. We are forever grateful that her new Neurosurgeon knew her symptoms (legs itching, randomly falling down, not able to potty train, etc) were real and even though it wasn’t being seen on a MRI, there was enough reason to check for a Tethered Cord. This is hopefully the beginning to Paisley feeling better!

2 months Post Op, and Paisley is potty trained! Such an amazing accomplishment. She is also eating wonderfully. She has gained weight from eating and not from being on Steriods for an excessive amount of time. Paisley still has some symptoms that linger however we know she is feeling better and able to play more like a 4 year old should be.

On July 8th, 2020 Paisley had double eye surgery for her 4th Nerve Palsy. Unfortunately the nerve was damaged from the stent and unable to repair itself. The purpose of the surgery was to help with her head tilt and to hopefully lower her vertical deviation and eliminate her seeing double. The surgery went well and we believe the amount she sees double has reduced. Unfortuantely, she still is seeing double and another surgery might be needed. We discovered due to the extent of Paisley’s condition, she will always see double in certain head positions. This makes us incredibly sad but we know Paisley will overcome anything! She is such a determined girl and won’t let anything stop her!

After Paisley’s 1st surgery, we decided to remain positive and turn our journey into a mission; to help make change. So much more research is needed. More funding is needed. This is how Cans for Chiari was born.

You can follow her journey and updates at:

4 thoughts on “Paisley Willow

  1. Hi my name is Kayla Morgan. I suffer from Chairi. Iv been lucky to be seeing Dr Oro in co and have surgery set up July 15. It was suppose to be 6/10 but do to high pressure they had to postpone the surgery. My family was eating at ground control where I came across your cans for Chairi and I wanted to let you know it brought a smile to my face to see this locally! Thank you


    1. Melissa Smarik June 28, 2019 — 9:44 pm

      We have heard amazing things about Dr. Oro. You are in wonderful hands with him.

      We need to do some updating regarding Paisley but she was just tested for pressures due to the development of 4th nerve palsy. She now needs eye surgery. She had her lumbar puncture on Monday.

      We wish you the very best with your surgery. Please update us and let us know how your surgery goes. We will keep you in our thoughts💜


    2. Jordan Catterton August 23, 2019 — 12:17 pm

      Hello there! I know Aurora, CO is a trip, but my step mother had her first compression surgery by Dr. Oro and she has had nothing but positive things to say about the whole process! I’m so thankful for this page and I intend to share it!


      1. I have heard amazing things about Dr. Oro as well. He is a wonderful Doctor and very knowledgeable! I am happy to hear your Stepmom’s surgery went so well!


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